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What's true is always true and always was true

For the first time in so many years, I find myself in a state where it seems nothing more needs to be said. I could analyze every detail about what's going on in the world; but I have no firsthand intel. I will leave this to others who have access or are more inclined.

Everything I have said about spiritual awakening, perfect love, the need to shift away from fear, about freedom, truth, reality...of course it all remains true and relevant now and always. There are hundreds of posts, books, talks, and all of it remains perfectly relevant.

I have stopped living in time, waiting for the world to change. As changes happen, I am paying attention. But waiting for fiction to end only makes the fiction seem real. Instead, we can focus on what is real now and always.

What I am here to live and teach is perfect love; what it is and what it does. Bring unconditional love into your relationships and find that they become holy, eternal, blissful. Bring perfect love into your work and enjoy financial abundance. Know that perfect love means the same thing as honesty, forgiveness, acceptance, freedom, health, bliss, and reality. Live in alignment with perfect love, in the eternal present moment, and you will feel good and be freed from fear. 

This is salvation, and it is here now for anyone who chooses to recognize that you already have everything. There is nothing to wait for. If the world changes for the better, that's wonderful. If evil deeds are being stopped, we can all be grateful. If we are one day freed from this system of propaganda and debt slavery, we can celebrate. But even if current events take a turn for the worst, the truly awake remain in a place of joy and safety.

There is nothing to wait for and nothing to fear. What's true is always true and always was true. 


What is real is eternal

“How simple is salvation! All it says is what was never true is not true now, and never will be. The impossible has not occurred, and can have no effects. And that is all.”

-A Course in Miracles

Fear is the belief that something real can be lost. The compulsive urge to hold onto situations, things, or people is confusion about reality.

That which can be changed, lost, or threatened was never real to begin with. Similarly, that which is true cannot be made untrue.

The peace of God is this deeper recognition of reality. The idea of losing our status, losing a job, losing our physical health—even losing a loved one—is what keeps us up at night. That urge to hold on—it is what drives us to push through a waking life devoid of joy, pleasure, and beauty.

The problem is that everything in physical form, in the realm of our senses, in the field of matter—it all changes. Maybe slowly, maybe suddenly, but the truth is it will leave us eventually.

Salvation is the ability to accept what is real.

Your creativity is the source of value. This is what generates abundance in every situation (not one particular job). Love and connection between souls is the ultimate truth (not one particular relationship). Stay aware of what is real.

Reality is consciousness, awareness itself. It is the energy of life, the unchanging laws of nature. Love is the whole truth. This all means the same thing.

Fear, frustration, boredom, anger—all negative emotions are caused by confusion over reality. To shift focus on reality and to always forgive non-reality is to find that state of ongoing joy and perfect love, absent of fear.

We are powerless against truth / reality. All power is found in the embrace of it and the rejection of all that is false.

This is spiritual awakening, the death of the ego. Herein lies everything we truly want and truly are. What is real is eternal.

What is real is eternal.


What is 3D, 4D, and 5D and what are the differences?

Spiritual teachers often talk of 3D, 4D, and 5D to describe a person’s spiritual evolution. In these different states of existence, people see and interpret reality very differently.

There are, indeed, different perceptions of reality…different ways of seeing and knowing…depending upon our state of spiritual awareness. There are also different frequencies, so that it is difficult for a person in one dimension to truly connect and resonate with a person in a different dimension. There’s no shared understanding or connection. Let’s look at these dimensions.

The Third Dimension:

This is the material world of the ego. Here, we are concerned with what others think about us. We want to be successful. We want material rewards, status, and other treasures that the ego promises will make us happy.

In the Third Dimension, we believe that the voice in the head is who we are. What matters is in the external world. We seek situations and circumstances that will make us happy, and we fear situations and circumstances that would bring suffering or failure.

We see events as random, as just happening to us. We blame others for our problems. Lost in the material world completely, we are unaware of our identity as spirit. With no awareness of the now, the mind is either on the past or the future. Only in the now can we find happiness.

A person living in the Third Dimension typically craves sex, drugs, or other stimuli because this is the only way to turn off the mind, to experience the bliss of the now. Sex, in particular, is an obsessive compulsion because it delivers everything the ego wants—conquering, attention, proof of your worth, drama, and a blissful escape from the mind’s suffering.

What is called love in the Third Dimension is not love. 3D love is understood as an attempt to get something from another. It depends upon a foundation of specific conditions being met by the other person. It is measured in terms of the other person’s loyalty, obedience, good behavior, thoughtfulness, and so on. Because so much importance is placed on oftentimes unrealistic conditions, people living in 3D are not satisfied for the long term in their relationships.

In the Third Dimension, true love is experienced only by accident—when two people experience the bliss of the now together and feel that deeper spiritual connection. This is only possible before the conditions come—at the very early stage of a relationship.

Because there is no spiritual awareness in 3D, it is believed that either God does not exist or that God is external, up there in the sky. Either way, there is a great deal of fear about death, just as there is this fear about life in the background.

Those living in 3D believe that the world is as authority says it is. They are afraid to question norms and to express an original thought that doesn’t conform to what society says is normal. This causes a great deal of suffering because people exploit these individuals to make a lot of money. The 3D person is the loyal subject, the good consumer, the foundation of what we call Capitalism or any other system of centralized power. 3D consciousness makes us willing to buy and consume whatever seems cool, do whatever we are told and whatever everyone else does, and all without giving it much thought.

Then one day, you find yourself sick, badly out of shape, broke, confused, and depressed. Still, afraid to leave the familiar dimension, they seek quick fixes in the consumer world. Anyone who challenges the reality they believe is normal is attacked and walls are put up. Unless…

The Fourth Dimension:

There comes a moment in anyone’s life when you can no longer believe the implausible stories of the Third Dimension. You begin asking questions. Am I happy? Is the standard diet and lifestyle causing weight gain and sickness? Are politicians and news anchors lying? Are pharmaceuticals good for me? Do I believe the official story of 9/11? Isn’t COVID just another name for the flu and don’t a lot of people die every year from pneumonia? Are lockdowns and so-called vaccines really about our health? Any real question leads a person to start 4D thinking.

Now you break through to the formerly forbidden realm of free thinking. Now begins an honest questioning of everything. You start to see how humans are indoctrinated, conditioned, programed. You start researching to find out how it is this way. Who’s really in charge? What is the truth in any situation?

You become excited to learn, though in the beginning it can be very traumatic and even lead to depression. There is a hopelessness at first. A void inside. But there’s no going back, so you try to fight for truth and justice. You speak up, trying to persuade others.

At some point, you realize that you can’t change the world. Others don’t want to see the truth. You still function in 3D—you must still earn a living and keep things together. You still understand 3D thought and, in many areas of life, you easily slip right back into it. In the 4th and 5th Dimension, yes, you can still function in 3D for practical reasons. You play it like a game because, in the current world, you simply must.

For others, the 4D experience is different. What I described so far is probably the lower orders of 4D, where you are looking only at the material world, but now with a desire to find out the truth and change it. Others experience 4D in a more spiritual sense. They practice strange rituals and become superstitious. They go on retreats, do yoga, talk a lot about energy and vibration, collect crystals, go to fortune-tellers, they may try to maintain a smile and exude spiritual wisdom.

They may get involved in more outlandish ideas beyond the observable world—talking about reptilians, Atlantis, time travel, and an endless variety of things that make those in 3D roll their eyes, tune out, or worse.

In 4D consciousness, fear is still very real and what matters externally in the world is still very important. This is currently the dimension in which the global war is being waged between the black hats and the white hats. The white hats want to awaken the population from 3D so that we can end the sickness and corruption of the world.

There is a great moral calling to end the human trafficking, stop the destruction cause by drug trafficking, end the wars and large-scale theft perpetrated upon a sleeping and unaware 3D population. For the sake of our state of being, for our children and future generations, this is a great and important war.

We are truly in the process of changing the world, entering an entirely new era, simply because enough of us have moved from 3D to 4D—and because there is a very well-planned operation in place at the highest level which is moving everything forward in the right way.

The Fifth Dimension:

This is salvation / true spiritual awakening / escape from ego / unconditional love / present moment awareness / forgiveness—and so many other words which all mean the same thing. Oneness. The end of suffering and pain. Perfect knowledge through the recognition that nothing in the lower dimensions is ultimately real.

I’ve heard that roughly 13% of the English-speaking world exists in 5D, and the numbers are growing. 5D is accessible at any time and instantly with almost no effort. You can go straight from 3D to 5D even never having entered 4D. All that is required is a total humbling of your ego-self and a willingness to understand the right teachings.

There are at least a few portals into instant 5D: 1) aligning with perfect, unconditional love as a continuous state, 2) a noticing of and acceptance of the present moment—the now—as a continuous state, 3) a decision to always tell the truth and want the truth, no matter what. If you can do any of these, the others will come naturally. Though you do need a spiritual practice—reading or listening to the right teachings, meditating, taking care of yourself, etc.

Those who exist in 5D tend not to obsess over the matters of the 3D or 4D world. There is a tendency not to watch TV, not to know what’s going on in the world, because there is this awareness that it doesn’t ultimately matter.

Yet, there is still the need to function in the 3D world because you need to earn money, you need to follow the laws, you need to take care of loved ones. But you try to do so in a way that is loving. You find that the Third Dimension is very easy to navigate now. You are successful and happy, just as others are generally pleased with you.

You also continue to engage in 4D thinking because that is part of telling and wanting the truth. The difference now is that it isn’t an obsession or compulsive need. If it becomes compulsive, now you have left 5D and are back in 4D as your primary state.

In 5D, you no longer fear death because you have found your identity as spirit—which is eternal. You fear nothing of the world because, ultimately, you know it doesn’t matter. It’s all just physical form, which is always changing and impermanent. Whenever a bit of fear does creep back in, you dispel it by focusing on the thought system of perfect, unconditional love (or, alternatively, awareness of the now). Love casts out fear just as light casts out darkness. Both cannot exist at once. Presence casts out fear because here, in this moment, nothing is wrong.

Those living in 5D accept all of reality. If it is happening, it is supposed to be happening. There is a reason. We forgive by looking past error, by seeing its unreality. We experience a calm state of joy, where there is no drama, just a good energy. Negative emotions pass through very quickly because we have learned to let go.

In 5D, we no longer seek out sex compulsively, though it is very much enjoyed with another person who is on the same wavelength. There is a guiltless, easy sharing of joy without all the jealousy and negative emotions that surround sex in the lower dimensions. While we may still have a drink and engage in life’s pleasures, we do so not with the compulsion or addiction like before.

The First Dimension is entirely internal. It is found in the empty space rather than in form. Love. Feeling good. Inspiration. Safety. Knowledge. Understanding. Everything we most care about is found only in 5D.

This is obviously intended as a high-level overview. There is so much more than can be covered about these three dimensions. I believe it is helpful, in observing my own thoughts and behaviors, to at least recognize which dimension I am operating in—trying not to lose contact with 5D even when the world pulls some of my attention to 3D and 4D.

One day, when most of us are familiar with 5D, the world’s problems and largescale suffering will end. We will find solutions in love and truth. We will no longer use attack in any form. We will no longer see your differences and will connect through our oneness. We will understand the source of abundance and happiness. We will love in a way that is eternal. We will exist in a state of heaven on earth. This is what is coming as we continue to ascend.

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True faith is faith in love

Take your problems, your fears, your worries and offer them to the infinite power of love. They can only exist for you if love is being blocked or withheld in any way.

You can use whatever language or ideas that work for you, but the goal is not an embrace of or identification with any particular religion or belief system. Those are only tools and the practices, but true faith is faith in love.

People have been confused, but this is the end of confusion. People have been suffering, but this is the end of suffering. People have been oppressed, but this is perfect freedom. People have been alone, but this is union. People have been living in fear, but love dispels all fear just as light ends darkness.

May all the Christians, Mormons, Taoists, Buddhists, Hindus, Jews, Muslims, Athiests, Agnostics, Mystics and every single one of us agree on the one and only thing that we already do agree on: love.

Love is the answer to every challenge, the solution to every problem, the energy and thought system of God, the whole truth, the way and the light. According to my favorite book, "Sin is where love is not." (A Course in Miracles).

Now I ask a question to anyone who wants to answer, and I will respond to your answer: what problem exists in your life that love cannot solve? Please tell me and I will show you how to offer it to love, to solve it completely, here and now.

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The Egoless.Love video course; everything you need to be happy in your romantic relationship

If you are not happy in your relationship or marriage, I have something really exciting for you. I am currently putting together a video course called Egoless.Love. It is an in-depth video series that teaches everything you need to build a loving, joyful, fun relationship that cannot break. 

Maybe you aren't being treated fairly in your relationship. You feel controlled and manipulated, or your partner isn't trying hard enough. Maybe there's resentment, not enough sex, too much arguing and fighting, not enough honest communication or fun. It really doesn't have to be this way. Don't give up on your relationship just yet.

It isn't that you don't love your partner. The problem is that the world has been teaching us the wrong way to love. There is a better way to do relationships so that the love never dies, you are both happy, there's nothing to argue about, and everything is always good. 7 years ago, my wife and I discovered this radically different and better way to do relationships. Now we're teaching all the lessons and leave nothing out. 

In the course, you will learn about the destructive force of ego in your relationship. You will have a chance to look at how we are taught to use guilt and attack to change people (and it this never works). You will enjoy a workshop to learn the skill of non-violent communication. You will find out how to be honest and want honesty and openness in your relationship. You will even be freed from the grip of sexual jealousy. You will learn to love yourself and find lasting inner peace. 

The course also includes in-depth teaching on topics of identity and spirituality. You will overcome the fear-based, destructive ego-identity by shifting to the true thought system of perfect love. I will also teach present moment awareness, how to observe the voice in the head, and how to gain control over negative emotions.

The most exciting part is that Egoless.Love is fail-proof. If you apply the lessons, the outcome will be perfect love and joy in your relationships. The course is coming very soon.


On setting rules & boundaries

Setting a rule or making anything taboo is asking another person to lie to you. Do you value knowing or not knowing? If you value knowing, then don't make knowing impossible by setting limits on truth.

In all areas of life, it is the lack of both honesty and unconditional acceptance that causes suffering. You cannot claim to want the truth and not choose unconditional acceptance--which is simply a decision for truth everywhere.

Lies will suffocate any relationship; causing mistrust, resentment, distance and loneliness. Being limited by someone else's demands—because you are afraid of what might happen, or because you want to protect someone else's feelings—also feels lousy and is completely unnecessary. 

There is nothing wrong with you and, therefore, there is nothing wrong with telling your truth and living it. Same goes for your loved ones. If you love them, let them be who they are.

When there is perfect honesty combined with love, all issues can be dealt with and worked through. As you truly communicate, that blissful, energetic feeling of love will be kept alive. You will be blessed with an open heart and mind. Youthful energy will flow through you at any age. If this is what you want, unconditional love is the only way.

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If it is not direct communication, then I don’t understand anything

Some people expect others to understand them even without directly communicating what they are trying to say. They use gestures and facial expressions instead of words. They verbally attack verbally, or withhold response, cut communication, withhold intimacy, or pout—expecting others to wonder why, to care, and to guess correctly about the message being sent and responding accordingly.

Childish communication communicates nothing at all. If you want to be understood, say it. Explain how you feel. Reveal your true self through your deepest honesty. If your tone is sensitive and loving, others will respond with more patience, love, and understanding. Direct communication isn’t going to hurt!

Of course, those who avoid direct communication are not really trying to be understood. They are resisting true human connection for the purpose of protecting the ego.

Thankfully, there is a new kind of human being emerging. Through directness, openness, and a total commitment to honesty, we so easily live our truth—replacing confusion with perfect knowledge, isolation with union, fear with love, lack with abundance.

This is only possible after a decision to shatter the ego, to transcend it, to laugh at its destruction and place all faith in what is real, true, and honest.

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