Posts categorized "Love"

The Egoless.Love video course; everything you need to be happy in your romantic relationship

If you are not happy in your relationship or marriage, I have something really exciting for you. I am currently putting together a video course called Egoless.Love. It is an in-depth video series that teaches everything you need to build a loving, joyful, fun relationship that cannot break. 

Maybe you aren't being treated fairly in your relationship. You feel controlled and manipulated, or your partner isn't trying hard enough. Maybe there's resentment, not enough sex, too much arguing and fighting, not enough honest communication or fun. It really doesn't have to be this way. Don't give up on your relationship just yet.

It isn't that you don't love your partner. The problem is that the world has been teaching us the wrong way to love. There is a better way to do relationships so that the love never dies, you are both happy, there's nothing to argue about, and everything is always good. 7 years ago, my wife and I discovered this radically different and better way to do relationships. Now we're teaching all the lessons and leave nothing out. 

In the course, you will learn about the destructive force of ego in your relationship. You will have a chance to look at how we are taught to use guilt and attack to change people (and it this never works). You will enjoy a workshop to learn the skill of non-violent communication. You will find out how to be honest and want honesty and openness in your relationship. You will even be freed from the grip of sexual jealousy. You will learn to love yourself and find lasting inner peace. 

The course also includes in-depth teaching on topics of identity and spirituality. You will overcome the fear-based, destructive ego-identity by shifting to the true thought system of perfect love. I will also teach present moment awareness, how to observe the voice in the head, and how to gain control over negative emotions.

The most exciting part is that Egoless.Love is fail-proof. If you apply the lessons, the outcome will be perfect love and joy in your relationships. The course is coming very soon.


On setting rules & boundaries

Setting a rule or making anything taboo is asking another person to lie to you. Do you value knowing or not knowing? If you value knowing, then don't make knowing impossible by setting limits on truth.

In all areas of life, it is the lack of both honesty and unconditional acceptance that causes suffering. You cannot claim to want the truth and not choose unconditional acceptance--which is simply a decision for truth everywhere.

Lies will suffocate any relationship; causing mistrust, resentment, distance and loneliness. Being limited by someone else's demands—because you are afraid of what might happen, or because you want to protect someone else's feelings—also feels lousy and is completely unnecessary. 

There is nothing wrong with you and, therefore, there is nothing wrong with telling your truth and living it. Same goes for your loved ones. If you love them, let them be who they are.

When there is perfect honesty combined with love, all issues can be dealt with and worked through. As you truly communicate, that blissful, energetic feeling of love will be kept alive. You will be blessed with an open heart and mind. Youthful energy will flow through you at any age. If this is what you want, unconditional love is the only way.

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If you want perfect honesty, you will need to learn unconditional acceptance. If you place any limits on truth, you will not have it.


Relationships without rules are filled with a bliss that can continue as long as perfect honesty also continues.


If it is not direct communication, then I don’t understand anything

Some people expect others to understand them even without directly communicating what they are trying to say. They use gestures and facial expressions instead of words. They verbally attack verbally, or withhold response, cut communication, withhold intimacy, or pout—expecting others to wonder why, to care, and to guess correctly about the message being sent and responding accordingly.

Childish communication communicates nothing at all. If you want to be understood, say it. Explain how you feel. Reveal your true self through your deepest honesty. If your tone is sensitive and loving, others will respond with more patience, love, and understanding. Direct communication isn’t going to hurt!

Of course, those who avoid direct communication are not really trying to be understood. They are resisting true human connection for the purpose of protecting the ego.

Thankfully, there is a new kind of human being emerging. Through directness, openness, and a total commitment to honesty, we so easily live our truth—replacing confusion with perfect knowledge, isolation with union, fear with love, lack with abundance.

This is only possible after a decision to shatter the ego, to transcend it, to laugh at its destruction and place all faith in what is real, true, and honest.

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When happens when you combine perfect love with perfect truth?

Though it is taught using many different words and concepts, there is only one way to end fear and negativity. Only one way to align all thought and behavior with the positive. Only one way to manifest lasting joy, abundance, bliss, peace, and safety. The way is through perfect love combined with perfect truth.

You can experience all your wildest fantasies, live life to the fullest—but only through a total commitment to unconditional love always combined with a decision to always tell the truth, no matter what, and always want the truth, no matter what. To do this is to spiritually awaken and to end the problems of your life and of this world.

Love and truth are never negotiable. Believe otherwise and become lost in the insanity and endless errors of the ego. Love cannot be defined according to your preferences, and nothing can be gained by manipulating or rejecting the truth about anything. All failure, suffering, and crisis are rooted in this error.

A Course in Miracles correctly teaches that “sin is where love is not.” Where there is anything less than perfect honesty and truth, there is no love. Where there is lack of forgiveness or acceptance, there is no love. Where there is an attempt to get rather than to give, there is no love. Where there is attack in any form, there is no love.

Love is the one non-negotiable, the only solution to any challenge and the correct response to any situation. Learn what perfect love is, live it fully, and everything else in life is yours. Just do it; but do it in love. 

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What if you looked within, and found that there is nothing wrong with you?

What if, within you, was the cure to all the problems of the world you think you see?
What if the truth about you is that you are pure love and perfectly lovable?
What if your intuition, your inner voice was the truth and the lessons of the world lies?
What if you looked within, and found the real source of love?
What if you found that you only mean well and are only good?
What if you looked within and found that you have the power to solve every problem?
What if you found that the real you is sinless?
What if you looked within and found nothing to feel guilty or ashamed of?
What if you realized that you are not to blame for the attacks, disappointment, and shaming others have projected upon you?
What if, by looking within, you found that the problem all along was the fear to truly look within?
What if you only looked within, in search of your pure love, your perfect honesty, your need for freedom?
What if, when you find it, you decide for this to become your only reality?
What if you then looked within your brother, your sister, everyone you see in the same way?

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