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Use honesty, never attack

We attack because we believe it works and because we feel justified. We use words or actions meant to be harsh or hurtful to teach a lesson or change someone’s behavior.

Does attack ever work? In the short term, it can sometimes appear to. You may get the desired behavior from a friend, loved one, or subordinate. A child may comply. But, beneath the surface, you have only taught that you are violent. You have created fear and, because you are now feared, have ended trust and closeness in the relationship. You will lose influence over the situation because the real lesson will not be understood and, going forward, you will be avoided.

If you feel the need to try to correct someone, why not calmly, lovingly, honestly discuss your concern? Help a child understand their errors and likely consequences. Share your feelings with a friend or loved one. Help a subordinate understand the expectations of the relationship. If you are right about something, the loving and honest approach is the way to actually correct error.

Correction isn’t about causing someone to be afraid of you or the painful consequences you will impose. True change is only possible through a mutual understanding of reality. Speak truthfully to help others see the truth of the situation. Listen openly and with acceptance of others. In doing so, you both dissolve problems without conflict and teach that the loving response is always the correct response to any challenge.

The truth of any situation is found only in love and honesty. Attack wields literally no lasting power. Attack does not fix the problem; it is the problem. The loving response is always the correct response, and I assure you that, aligned with love, relationships are extremely easy.

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Time and eternity cannot both be real, because they contradict each other. (A Course in Miracles)

“If you will accept only what is timeless as real, you will begin to understand eternity and make it yours.”

To accept the eternal is to identify with, to align with, to care only about the timeless and changeless—to know that nothing impermanent is even real because it is always changing.
Our spirit, our God-essence, our energy, our love within is our true identity.
Transcending the body and the physical realm, this real, formless, nameless identity is also beyond threat and is eternal.  

You can spend your entire life searching for the lasting, the stable, the beautiful destination you crave within the physical realm—but you will never find it there.
Eternity is what you already are, and need only be recognized and remembered.

See the literal falseness of time—which is nothing more than a measurement system we use to look at the movement of matter in the eternal present.
Yes, nothing ever existed in the past and nothing will exist in the future. All of the universe has only ever existed in the present moment, which is all there is and ever will be.

To make eternity yours in this Holy Instant is to awaken from the dream.
This is one of many portals to Salvation.

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To desire wholly is to create (A Course in Miracles)

If there is anything you want to create which has not yet manifested in your life, it is because you do not desire it wholly. You may believe you want all sorts of things: a happy relationship, children, to achieve a goal, to create a work of art or a successful business. In truth, if there is anything you want that is not present, it can only be for a few reasons:

1) You do not want it wholly

If you wholly want a happy, healthy, perfect relationship, then you will have one. Any such relationship begins with loving yourself. Figure this out, and your relationships with others can only be perfect. As for children, if you wholly wanted children, you would have children with one simple act of creation. The same goes with achieving a goal or creating anything at all. If you wholly wanted it, then this is where you would focus work and attention. It would be so.

2) You are wanting something external rather than creating

You may want world peace, or for a loved one to change, or for the world to finally recognize your brilliance. The problem here is that what you desire is not a creative desire. You are giving attention to what is outside your control, while you only have control over your creations.

Hoping, praying, and waiting for something external to happen in the world or in your life is misdirected desire. So much of what appears real and significant in this life is entirely beyond our control.

The good news is that your perfect love, joy, health, and everything you most deeply want is entirely within your control. The way to achieve it is through your God-given, God-like power to create.  There is nothing external required for you to thrive within the realm that is already fully yours.

If something is beyond your control, then you can easily accept it. If you wholly desire something within your creative control, then create it. If you do not wholly desire it, then be honest with yourself about it and find a sense of peace there.

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To the people in my life I was once closer to

Please know that what was real between us is still real. I remain wide open to you, and nothing real has changed.

While we have both changed, and the circumstances of our lives have too, nothing real between two people can be lost. In friendship, there is a shared treasure which is eternal and free from the changing forms, definitions, and perceptions of the world.

In all the friendships that meant so much to me along the way, I recognize that there was the good and the bad. We shared beautiful, inspiring feelings and intentions. That was the real part. Then there were the unhealthy parts—the selfishness, conflict, and so on. That is the part of me that died a while back. The part you might have valued, I assure you, is still very much alive.

Here I sit with a clear memory of the good, in a life of total honesty and freedom, and with unbreakable joy in my heart that longs to be shared.

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Free and joyful despite the headlines

The leftists are now afraid because of their impossible need to trust the untrustworthy. Traditional Christians and Conservatives are now also lost in fear...forgetting what is real and what is illusion. We are alright because of our perfect knowledge of love.

The ones so terribly fearful of the future, the jab, etc. are no different from the ones so fearful of the virus. Consumed by fear and lost in illusion, they are powerless. You and I are free from this, and our perfect love also protects the ones we love. The insanity of others is not even real.

The challenge now, I believe, is not to act, not to fight anything; rather, to remain in the present moment, aligned with unconditional love, absent of fear. We need to be free and joyful despite the headlines.

Withdraw attention from insanity. This is not burying your head in the sand; rather, just the opposite. These are not just nice words and wishful thinking. No, this is the only thing you can do. Spiritually awaken. If enough of us could claim the sanity of reality, the cabal would have no power.

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You who withhold your unconditional love are literally denying heaven for yourself

You are not guilty, nor is anyone. We have errored at times; but error is never anything but acting without love.

The correction for lack of love is unconditional love. Only light undoes darkness and only love undoes sin. To love unconditionally is to forgive.

There is, therefore, no reason to ever withhold unconditional love. While the world would convince you otherwise, this love-starved world is clearly not heaven and does not understand the lesson.

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Thus it is said: (Tao Te Ching)

The path into the light seems dark,
the path forward seems to go back,
the direct path seems long,
true power seems weak,
true purity seems tarnished,
true steadfastness seems changeable,
true clarity seems obscure,
the greatest art seems unsophisticated,
the greatest love seems indifferent,
the greatest wisdom seems childish.

-Tao Te Ching

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The truth can only be loving because only love is true

People are afraid of perfect honesty because we are afraid of getting hurt. This is shortsighted because, in the end, only perfect love can be the truth.

Honesty, however, is a process—an ongoing process, a thought system, a radically different way of life. Whenever two people begin to practice perfect honesty, at first it can hurt. But the only thing getting hurt is the ego.

The ego—with its faith in guilt, attack, specialness, superiority, and brutal selfishness—hurts like hell when it is exposed because looking at your own nastiness and ugliness is painful. When two people allow the ego to be fully exposed—when they accept it and look at it honestly—what they will ultimately see is something they do not want. Facing the truth is the undoing of ego.

All the things we are afraid to confront, the hidden thoughts and secrets we are slaves to—these are only unreal illusions. In the ultimate reality, everything the ego makes is nothing and, therefore, should not be valued or respected as something.

When two people keep going more deeply into honesty, what is ultimately revealed is perfect truth: which is and can only be unconditional love.

The path to salvation, awakening, enlightenment, unconditional love—whatever you want to call it—is and can only be the path of honesty. Honesty is the undoing of all the errors which block love.

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Segregation in New York

Starting on Monday, New York City will ban 40% of their residents and 70% of their black residents from participating in indoor dining, indoor fitness, and indoor entertainment.

Unfortunately, these residents did not want to take an experimental mRNA gene therapy with an unknown long term safety profile.

Perhaps, these residents didn't trust our health institutions compromised by the billions being made every month by their big pharma sponsors.

Or, maybe, they understood that the so called "vaccine" does not stop infection, transmission, hospitalization, or death.

Some may have even seen the record number of adverse advents and deaths be ignored by the corporate media.

Others may have weighed the risk-to-reward of a virus with a 99.98% chance of survival for people below the age of 50.

Many may have already developed robust natural immunity.

Regardless, they all will be banished from public society in New York City starting on Monday.

 

From @kenekoathegreat on Telegram

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