State your purpose loud and clear and then live it. Others, who share your purpose, will join with you in perfect harmony.
Whenever a purpose is shared, the other details are worked out rather easily. Things flow effortlessly. The relationship is enjoyable and you feel good together.
But a relationship without a shared purpose will be filled with negotiation, debate, and conflict. This type of relationship is all about trying to change each other, trying get at least as much as you give. Here you are in opposition and there is no fit.
Healthy relationships are about shared purposes. Make your relationships a celebration of that. Then, set each other free to explore your other purposes—the ones that you don’t share. Do only this and experience perfect happiness in every relationship. We continue tomorrow and each day after that.